Healing Conversation in Singapore

Finding Strength Through Conversation

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and sometimes we face setbacks that leave us feeling lost, disheartened, or unsure of our place in the world. Moving forward after such experiences isn't just important—it's essential for our well-being. My own journey through the highs and lows of life has equipped me with unique insights and deep empathy for those struggling to find clarity and strength again.

Healing conversations are not only for those experiencing heartbreak in relationships. They are for anyone carrying emotional weight—whether you’ve lost someone close, faced the pain of losing a job, struggled with feelings of failure, or lived with low self-esteem since young. These moments can make us question our worth and direction, but they also hold the potential for growth and renewal.

Many of us who have suffered deeply—whether through love, loss, or personal challenges—are affectionate and sensitive individuals. We invest wholeheartedly in life and relationships, and when things don’t work out, it can feel overwhelming. I understand these struggles and am here to walk alongside you, offering guidance and perspective drawn from lived experience.

My mission is to provide empathetic support and encouragement, ensuring that no one feels alone in their journey to heal, rebuild confidence, and rediscover hope. Whether you are navigating grief, rebuilding after setbacks, or simply seeking a safe space to share, this is a place for you.

I’m not here to dictate your future path or preach solutions. Instead, I aim to help you open your eyes to different perspectives, empowering you to move forward with renewed strength and clarity.

Why Chat with Skai

1. Experience:

   I've been through my fair share of relationship setbacks, rejections and betrayals. These experiences have not only shaped who I am but have also given me the tools to help others navigate their emotional challenges. My journey has taught me resilience and the importance of staying open to new possibilities.

2. Friendly Approach:

   I approach each conversation with genuine empathy and understanding. I know what it's like to feel vulnerable, and I create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your story openly. Confidentiality is paramount, ensuring you can trust that our conversations remain private and secure.

3. Logical Thinking:

   During emotional periods, it's helpful to chat with someone who can offer logical perspectives. I'm here to provide that balance and help you see things clearly.

Who I Support

Healing conversations are meant to embrace the full spectrum of life’s challenges. No matter what you’re going through, this space is here to provide empathy, guidance, and perspective. These sessions are especially for those who prefer a natural, heartfelt conversation over formal therapy—someone to talk to who has walked similar paths and genuinely cares.

• Loss & Grief:

  Coping with the passing of a loved one and finding ways to honor their memory while moving forward.

• Career & Identity:

  Navigating job loss, career setbacks, or moments of feeling directionless and uncertain about your path.

• Self-Esteem & Inner Critic:

  Working through struggles with confidence, self-worth, or long-standing insecurities that may have been present since childhood.

• Relationship Challenges:

  Healing from heartbreak, managing family conflicts, or processing friendship breakdowns with compassion and clarity.

• Life Transitions:

  Adjusting to major changes such as moving cities, shifting roles, or facing the uncertainty that comes with new beginnings.

Whatever your story, you don’t have to carry it alone. These conversations are designed to help you see new perspectives, rebuild strength, and rediscover hope—through authentic, empathetic dialogue that feels more like talking to a friend than sitting in a clinic.

What Clients Can Expect

Every healing conversation is designed to be a safe and supportive experience. Here’s what you can expect when we sit down together:

• A safe, non-judgmental space:

  A place where you can share openly without fear of criticism, knowing that your feelings will be respected and understood.

• Emotional clarity and empowerment:

  Through gentle reflection and perspective, you’ll gain insights that help lighten the emotional burden and strengthen your confidence to move forward.

• Motivation:

  Encouragement to pick yourself up, rediscover hope, and take small but meaningful steps toward healing and growth.

• Advice from a layman:

  Guidance rooted in lived experience rather than clinical theory—authentic, practical, and shared from the heart of someone who has walked similar paths.

• Confidentiality Assurance:

  Your privacy is of utmost importance. All conversations are confidential, ensuring a safe space for you to share your story.

My role is not to prescribe solutions, but to walk alongside you with empathy, honesty, and encouragement—helping you see new perspectives and regain strength in your own journey.

Rates

$250 per session.

My Story

I'm a freelance photographer and among the many projects I've worked on, dating profile photography has become my most niche and fulfilling endeavour. I personalise photos for people who need profile pictures for dating apps, capturing their essence in a way that resonates with potential matches.

Through this work, I've crossed paths with many clients who are navigating the aftermath of relationship setbacks—some have been divorced, others dumped. Yet, they all share a common thread: a desire to improve their lives and open themselves up to new possibilities. Seeing their courage and resilience inspired me deeply and sparked my passion for helping others who are struggling with similar challenges.

Photography has allowed me to not only connect with people on a professional level but also a personal one, understanding their stories and their journeys. It's this connection that has driven me to extend my support beyond the camera and into empathetic conversations, where I can offer guidance and share my own experiences of overcoming rejection and heartbreak.

I believe my ability can do more to help people who haven't yet taken the first step towards healing and moving forward.

Personal Journey

I've been a seeker of love my entire life, being rejected at the early stages of my journey, then crossing paths with a few players and encountering betrayals along the way. My journey has been one of learning and growth, and I've emerged stronger and more resilient.

I crossed paths with a very nonchalant friend. After I was played by a girl, I had a coffee session with him, and he enlightened me on putting away my sorrow. Later, I realised he was a professional playboy. He counselled me, and I learned a lot about life from him.

Fun fact: I have never dumped anyone before, regardless of how horrible a few of my ex-girlfriends were.

Lessons Learned

From my experiences, I've learned valuable lessons about resilience, self-worth, and the importance of staying open to new possibilities. These lessons form the foundation of the guidance and support I offer to others.

Experience with Psychologists

At one point, I sought help from psychologists, hoping their guidance would provide new perspectives. However, I found that many of the methods they shared were things I had already researched and practiced myself. The way they spoke often felt unnatural and didn’t resonate with me on a personal level. This experience made me realize the importance of authentic, heartfelt conversations—ones that feel natural, empathetic, and grounded in lived experience. It reinforced my belief that healing can come from genuine dialogue rather than clinical scripts.

Inspiration to Help

My inspiration to start this project came from my wife's friend's story. Despite his young age (early 30s), he had never tried searching for a new life after a divorce. This story struck a chord with me and inspired me to help others who might be in similar situations.

How It Works

Simply arrange a chitchat session with me, where I take the time to understand your story and the challenges you're facing. I can share my personal stories with you and help you understand that life goes on.

Support doesn't end with the first conversation. I offer ongoing support and follow-up sessions to ensure you have the guidance and encouragement you need to keep moving forward.

Every individual's journey is unique, and my approach is flexible to cater to your specific needs. Whether you need frequent check-ins or occasional support, I'm here to help.

Begin Your Healing Journey

Taking the first step towards healing can be daunting, but it's also the most crucial. I encourage you to reach out and start your journey towards a brighter future.

Remember, hope and resilience are powerful forces. With the right support, you can overcome heartbreak, navigate loss, and rediscover confidence. Let's embark on this journey together and find meaning in life and relationships once again.

If you’re carrying pain, doubts, or questions, let’s have a conversation that helps you find light again. I invite you to book a session and take that important step toward healing and renewal.