Dating App & Website Reviews

Dating apps aren't just for finding romantic partners.

A quirky fact: my primary use of online dating platforms wasn't to find a date, but to make friends. My work schedule was intense, and my passion for photography meant I was constantly sourcing potential models to bring unique shoot concepts to life. Along the way, I met some wonderful people—models and friends—through these platforms.

I met an ex-girlfriend via OkCupid. Our relationship lasted over a year and ended due to differing life priorities. Despite that, we were deeply connected in many ways. I genuinely believe dating apps can help people find true soulmates.

OkCupid (OKC)

OkCupid was one of the first dating websites I explored, and it quickly became my favorite for several reasons.

The two standout features were its detailed questionnaires and generous character limits.

The questionnaires—even the optional sensitive ones—help users understand each other deeply. Its point system also provides a useful compatibility rating.

The unlimited character input allows users to write detailed self-introductions, attracting those who are serious about dating.

OkCupid lets users specify if they're looking for friends, short-term or long-term relationships, or casual connections—making intentions clear.

You can send messages before matching, which increases the chances for those who put in effort.

However, OkCupid now limits the number of likes/swipes within a time frame.

Business model: Paid A-list membership unlocks advanced search filters, visibility of who liked you, read receipts for messages, and more.

Tinder

Tinder is one of the most popular platforms for dating and casual encounters.

It's highly visual, with limited space for written profiles. Let's be honest—most people care about looks. Users try to win attention with short, punchy intros.

Its massive user base offers a wide selection, though you're limited to around 50 right swipes every 12 hours.

My biggest gripe is the “passport” feature, which allows users to virtually relocate. This leads to mismatched connections and wasted energy. The app's popularity also attracts scammers and bots.

Feedback suggests Tinder is saturated with users seeking hookups, flings, and casual arrangements.

While Tinder has a web version, I encountered bugs and preferred using the Android app.

Business model: Premium options include unlimited likes, undoing mistaken swipes, and daily super likes. Longer subscriptions offer better rates.

Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB)

Coffee Meets Bagel is similar to Tinder but stands out by showing only a limited number of profiles daily.

Users receive around 20 profiles each day to accept or reject, encouraging more thoughtful decisions.

This limitation reduces fatigue and promotes daily engagement, unlike Tinder, which can feel overwhelming.

Business model: Users can purchase “beans” to browse additional profiles. These are often the most popular (and likely better-looking) users—yes, I'm a programmer.

Facebook Dating

Facebook Dating is a newer entrant with the advantage of Facebook's massive user base.

However, its late arrival and Facebook's expansion into other markets (like gaming) may dilute its reach.

I tried it for a few months when it launched, but the initial excitement faded quickly.

In Singapore, the platform struggled to gain traction. Most female profiles I encountered were work permit holders, which may lead to cultural mismatches.